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Chetan Bhagats Article in TOI : Specially for Indian Women. Do Read it and share it with all the women in your life

Alright, this is not cool at all. A recent survey by Nielsen has revealed that Indian women are the most stressed out in the world: 87% of our women feel stressed out most of the time. This statistic alone has caused me to stress out. Even in workaholic America, only 53% women feel stressed.

What are we doing to our women? I’m biased, but Indian women are the most beautiful in the world. As mothers, sisters, daughters, colleagues, wives and girlfriends – we love them. Can you imagine life without the ladies?

For now, i want to give Indian women five suggestions to reduce their stress levels.

One, don’t ever think you are without power. Give it back to that mother-in-law. Be who you are, not someone she wished you would be. She doesn’t like you? That’s her problem.

Two, if you are doing a good job at work and your boss doesn’t value you – tell him that, or quit. Talented, hard-working people are much in demand.

Three, educate yourself, learn skills, network – figure out ways to be economically independent. So next time your husband tells you that you are not a good enough wife, mother or daughter-in-law, you can tell him to take a hike.

Four, do not ever feel stressed about having a dual responsibility of family and work. It is difficult, but not impossible. The trick is not to expect an A+ in every aspect of your life. You are not taking an exam, and you frankly can’t score cent per cent (unless you are in SRCC, of course). It is okay if you don’t make four dishes for lunch, one can fill their stomach with one. It is okay if you don’t work until midnight and don’t get a promotion. Nobody remembers their job designation on their dying day.

Five, most important, don’t get competitive with other women. Someone will make a better scrapbook for her school project than you. Another will lose more weight with a better diet. Your neighbour may make a six-dabba tiffin for her husband, you don’t – big deal. Do your best, but don’t keep looking out for the report card, and definitely don’t expect to top the class. There is no ideal woman in this world, and if you strive to become one, there will be only one thing you will achieve for certain – stress.

So breathe, chill, relax. Tell yourself you are beautiful, do your best and deserve a peaceful life. Anybody trying to take that away from you is making a mistake, not you. Your purpose of coming to this earth is not to please everyone. Your purpose is to offer what you have to the world, and have a good life in return. The next time this survey comes, i don’t want to see Indian women on top of the list. I want them to be the happiest women in the world. Now smile, before your mother-in-law shouts at you for wasting your time reading the newspaper.

Cherish Womanhood.

Visit to INS Vikrant – details 2011

I guess many people want to visit the warship (now a museum) INS – Vikrant.

One can visit INS- Vikrant only during the NAVY Fest (generally in november / december). Dates for 2011 are not yet out. Will keep the details posted on this website once the dates and other details are out. It is otherwise not open for civilians. If you still wish to go you will need a pass which you can get it from the employees working there.

It is located at the tiger gate (colaba). Ask for Ballard Pier – Tiger Gate.. or take a bus – 122 from Aaykar bhavan stop and ask for Tiger Gate Stop.

Generally this is what they charge….. there may be slight changes in 2011….

Entry Fees – For Adult – 25/-
Foe Children (03-14 Years) – 10/-
Camera – 35/-
Video Camera – 100/-

Time : 10:00 to 17:00

Entry : Through Tiger Gate near Kala Ghoda, Colaba Naval Dockyard, Ballard Estate, Mumbai.

This year, even i plan to visit INS-Vikrant 🙂 🙂 waiting for navy fest to start!

Mumbai: Hazaaron Khwaishein Aise

First Monsoon Rain is always very special. Yesterday rains drenched Mumbai and healing the burns of the summer heat.  In the last week of may, everyday seemed to witness the first pre-monsoon / monsoon shower.

I just went out to enjoy the rain. It was so soothing and amazing to see the metro crowd coming out to enjoy. Cool and calming breeze, tip-tip raindrops, children’s dancing in the first rain, playing football and cycling in the first rain, happiness amongst the people across all the age groups. People were coming out for a walk just to enjoy rains, to get drenched in Mumbai’s first monsoon rain, thundering and lightening added to the love showering. Cloaking frogs, foggy landscape, Mitti ki saundhi saundhi khushbu, the PACHPAN INCH SMILE on the face, the rain drops slowly gaining vigor. Well, but missed the pakoda’s yesterday to relish the flavor of rain.  No probs. We have the whole romantic season waiting for us.

Picture abhi baaki hai mere dost. Here the fun begins

 

Mumbai: Hazaaron Khwaishein Aiseee

First Monsoon Rain is always very special. Yesterday rains drenched Mumbai and healing the burns of the summer heat. In the last week of may, everyday seemed to witness the first pre-monsoon / monsoon shower.

I just went out to enjoy the rain. It was so soothing and amazing to see the metro crowd coming out to enjoy. Cool and calming breeze, tip-tip raindrops, children’s dancing in the first rain, playing football and cycling in the first rain, happiness amongst the people across all the age groups. People were coming out for a walk just to enjoy rains, to get drenched in Mumbai’s first monsoon rain, thundering and lightening added to the love showering. Cloaking frogs, foggy landscape, Mitti ki saundhi saundhi khushbu, the PACHPAN INCH SMILE on the face, the rain drops slowly gaining vigor. Well, but missed the pakoda’s yesterday to relish the flavor of rain. No probs. We have the whole romantic season waiting for us.

Magic of Midnight Peace

It’s 12am right now and instead of feeling sleepy i am feeling relaxed and at peace.It’s just me and my netbook. It’s just me and my peaceful smile which is very difficult to get off from my face. Its me and my thoughts. It’s me and my inner voice.

Only light present in the room is of the my netbook. The only sound in the room is of the wall clock. I can hear the tic-tic-tic of my clock so clearly and its so nice to hear that. And the best thing is i can hear the frogs croak. It’s loud and continuous…. whats the message???

Frogs croak for many reasons. One of the famous is that they perceive air humidity just before the rainfall. Well, its just almost a beginning of the second week of May, is the rainfall expected early this year. Wow, that will be amazing. As it is, its too hot and hazy here in Mumbai now-a-days.

I don’t feel like sleeping. I just want to close my eyes and feel the peace of midnight unlike the kachkach-pachpach of the day time, traffic noice, crowd noice, 100s of noice our ears have to bear at one go.
Poor Chap!!! guess, they don’t have any choice.

I wish if i could see the beautiful moon from my window. The midnight peace is worth experiencing atleast once in a week. When we sleep,we miss its magic. We just don’t realize how beautiful this magic of midnight peace is. It’s me and my happiness which comes from this midnight peace.

Journey from Bombay to AAMCHI MUMBAI!

 

 

 

Bombay has no bombs and is a harbor not bay. Today(1st May), in the year 1960, Bombay (now Mumbai) was transformed from a Bombay State to Bombay City and a capital of a newly created state Maharashtra. Life of the present Mumbaikar’s is quite different from the early one’s.

From Stone Age to Sultan of Gujarat:

Anyone living in Mumbai today knows Colaba, Mazagaon, Mumbadevi, Worli, Parel, Mahim as local places of Mumbai. But, did you know that once upon a time they were 7 independent islands. In fact, Mumbai has its mark since stone age. Later it was a part of Magadhan Empire ruled by the Ashoka Maurya. The empire receded and left the Buddhists monks and Kolis, whose stone Goddess – MumbaiDevi, gave its name to the current alpha city in the year 1995.

Mumbai changed hands many times. After Magadha Empire, islands were ruled by the Silhara Dynasty till the middle of the 13th century. Walkeshwar Temple, Banganga, Elephanta caves probably date from this time – under Silhara patronage.

After Silhara’s, King Bhimdev founded his kingdom with “Mahikawati” (Mahim) as its Capital. He was said to be from Anahilavada dynasty of Gujarat. Babulnath Temple was built under his patronage. He brought various communities from Saurashtra and other parts of Gujarat to Mahikawati. Later the islands were wrested by the Muslim rulers of Gujarat. The mosque in mahim probably date from this time.

Deliberate Twirl to West:

Portuguese Period:

Portuguese explorer Fransisco de Almeida’s ship sailed into the deep natural harbour of the island in 1508, and he called it Bom Bahia (Good Bay).  In 1534, Bahadur shah  was forced to sign the treaty of Bassein (at present – Vasai) with the Portuguese wherein Bassein and seven islands were surrendered to the Portuguese thereby ending the Islamic rule in the city. By this time Portuguese had already possessed west coast areas of Panjim, Daman and Diu. With the treaty, they possessed Bombay and named it as “Bom Bahia” meaning a “Good Bay” in Portuguese.

They built numerous churches at the areas where the major population comprised of Roman Catholics. St. Andrews Church at Bandra is the only church that remains with the Portuguese style facade.  Another church is the St. John the Baptist church built by the Portuguese in Mumbai. located inside SEEPZ, Andheri, which is opened only once in a year at present.

They also built forts at Sion, Mahim, Bandra and Bassien which can still be seen.

Dutch and the British:

In 1580, Spain invaded Portugal territories which opened the way for the Europeans to enter India (Possessed by Portuguese then). The Dutch arrived first, followed by the British. Portuguese had monopoly in trade in the 15th and earth 16th centuries. As a result, Battle of Swally was fought between the British and the Portuguese at Surat at around 1612 for the possession of Bombay(one of the seven islands then). The marriage treaty of British King Charles II and Portuguese Princess Catherine of Braganza in 1661 brought these islands into British as a part of a marriage dowry. Other 6 islands continued to be under Portuguese possession.  British renamed “Bom Bahia” to “Bombay”.

In 1668, according to the Royal Charter of 27th March 1668, an agreement between British Empire and East India Company led to the transfer of Bombay(one of the seven islands then) to the British East India Company at an annual rest of £10.

Company then built harbours and warehouses for trade. Customs house was also built. Fortifications were built around Raj Bhavan (formerly Bombay Castle). The second governor of Bombay saw the opportunity to develop islands into a centre of commerce to rival other ports which were still possessed by the local kingdoms then.  Various business incentives were offered which attracted Jews, Armenians, Brahmins, Gujaratis, Bohras and other communities. Population of Bombay rose approx. 6 times more in a period of 5 years. Ship building industry moved to Bombay from Surat.

In 1782, Hornby Vellard engineering project was started by the just assumed Governor of Bomaby – William Hornby to unite the 7 islands into one single landmass. The Bombay was connected to Salsette by a causeway at Sion, Colaba and little Colaba were connected to Bombay, causeway connecting mahim and bandra followed and so on. All 7 islands were merged to form a state of Bombay. Company built infrastructures like railways, Asiatic Society of Bombay (town hall), Elphinstone college, commercial banks, newspapers. All these activities led to the educational and economic progress and overall development of Bombay city. Victoria Terminus station (now CST) was one of the finest stations in the world then.

The concept of Dabbawalas originated during this period. Britishers in Bombay who did not liked the local food, set up the service of dabbawalas to carry lunch to their workplace straight from their home.

Bombay-Map-With-Reclamation-Areas, Mumbaibombay, mumbai

Post-Independence Period:

In 1950’s there was a demand from the United Maharashra Committee (Sanyukta Maharashtra Samiti) to create a separate Marathi speaking state “Maharashtra” from the state of Bombay with city Bombay (now Mumbai) as its capital.

On 1st May 1960, state of Bombay was portioned into the Marathi speaking state (Maharshatra) and Gujarati speaking state (Gujarat).

In 1995 Bombay was renamed to “Mumbai”, after Mumbadevi, a stone goddess of deep-sea fisherman.

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