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Love is “Ek cutting chai”

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You must be wondering about this article title. No matter what you are doing, which part of the world you are, if you are an Indian, ek cutting chai surely brings a broad smile on your face, water in your mouth, some freshness in taste and rejuvenated mind. A sip of adrak-wali or masala chai brings a contentment that’s unbeatable. “Ek chuski” … “Ek chuski chai ki kimat tum kya jaano – ek ehsaas hai, ek pal ka (its a feeling of a moment, living for the moment)”

And if its a “Tapari” chai, the glass of chai with raindrops pouring in it, you are completely wet and you feel cozy when you put your hands around the warm tea glass. A blessed sensation. With raindrops on your face, you keep blinking your eyes, keep holding a glass of tea and enjoy the coziness – cold and breezy rains, a warm feeling in your hands and a taste in your mouth… complete refreshment of mind, body and spirit… and even emotions.. a moment that makes you forget your tiredness… Isnt this love? Love is all around us, may be never notice it. All these small small moments are love moments. Do you have any such moments?

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15 best Monsoon songs in hindi

If you are someone who enjoy listening to music during rains, you will enjoy these familiar songs that many of us always remember!!

 

1. Dil yeh bechain ve – Taal

 

Hearing this song loud makes your foot dance automatically! Brilliant composition by A.R. Rahman

 

 

2. Ab ke Saawan aise barse – Shubha Mudgal Album – ab ke saawan

 

A beautiful song, that describes the joy of the 1st rains in a  particular locality. A wonderful picturization of normal human state of mind during first rains.

 

 

 

3. Saanson ko saanson mein – movie Hum Tum

 

A song that instills romance in every drop of rain and every beat of the music.

 

 

4. Barso re megha megha – Guru

 

A song that awakens a peacock with a girl.. the way peacock dances in the 1st rain, aishwarya seems to dance in the same way! Brings joy to heart and an uncontrollable feeling to dance.

 

 

5. Jo haal dil ka idhar ho raha hai – Sarfarosh

 

Sizzling romantic baarish song.

 

 

06. Bhaage re mann kabhi – Chameli

 

Mesmerizing baarish song.

 

 

07. San sanana san – Ashoka

 

This is not a rainy song , but when you listen to while it rains, this song can take you to another world.

 

08. Dekho baarish ho rahi hai – Album Yai Yo – Anu Malik

 

Simple dance song and melodious.

 

 

09. Is kadar pyar hai, tumse hao humsafar – Sonu Nigam Album – Deewana

 

Anyone will fall in love with this song and this short and sweet love story of the song. Hear it once, you will want it more.

 

 

10. Saawan Barse Tarse Dil – Movie Dahek

 

A song has a story in itself. A newly-dating couple anxious to meet each other… Travelling thru heavy rains or storm. There’s a emotion of joy and excitement and at the end of the song, when they come across, its as if heart beats come to a halt and love pours down thru their eyes.

 

 

11. Bheegi Bheegi Raaton mein aao naa – Adnan sami album

 

A beautiful memories song from the Mausam album of Adnan Sami.

 

 

12. Rimjhim Rimjhim – 1942 a Love Story

 

A beautiful romantic song which can lighten your mood every time you listen it.

 

 

13. Koi Ladki hai – Dil toh pagal hai

 

Peppy rainy dance number. 🙂

 

14. Rhythm of Mohabbatein – Instrumental

 

Best rain dance music

15. Chudi bhi zid pe aayi hai – Album Ishq hua 

 

One more melodious rain song.

Rim jhim gire saawan – Magical Mumbai rains

 

Mumbai rains bring the same images in flash….  every year.. yet its a scene that grabs worlds attention. Sky looks beautiful when it rains, cool breeze adds as a tinge of kesar in india sweets and blows your mind. Brings a sense of unreasonable happiness, a sweet smile. While it Brings its lifeline (trains) to halt, it also mesmerizes with the sweet smell of mud. While it blocks the roads, it Brings a selfie mood in.  While it makes it difficult to step out of house, it makes a perfect mood to relax besides window, sip a cup of adrak wali kadak chai and read your favorite book or listen to a soothing music. While umbrella and raincoat are useless, its fun to get drenched. While its full of puddle and in such water logs you don’t know where’s a pothole, walking is still a fun and its more fun when you are walking and a car passes by in speed resulting in splashing water all over you. While it rains your eyes may struggle to be open, yet the shivering breeze and cool rains keeps your spirit up to enjoy getting wet in rains.

Mumbai rains have a distinguished feeling than the rains in any other part of globe.

Rim jhim gire saawan
Sulag-sulag jaaye mann
Bheege aaj is mausam me
Lagi kaisi yeh lagan.

Mumbai rains have its own magic.

If God was a Banker!

 

 

 

For the first time, I will be writing an article on this blog a “book review”. I just completed reading the book “If God was a Banker”.

First time, i experienced the world of a Corporate Bank. While Bank continues to be a very needy part of our life, the back-end could be something different.

What I liked about this book (also what I learned):

1. How the sales at bank work:

It starts from late 1980’s. Book gives me an interesting view of how MNC’s entered into India. What opportunities did they saw in India. How credit cards came in place. How all these loans system came in place. How banks expanded their vision to the vision of common man and monetize on it. How concept of BPO’s started in India.

2. Working with Integrity, don’t compromise on your values to achieve your dreams:

It’s very easy to lose your grip to the greed. It’s always tempting. A person who has a weak relationship with its conscience can easily fall for it. It takes an immense belief in values, and chose a path of honesty and integrity when you are alone in the sea of glamour, power, greed, addiction to flesh, fake-reputation of cool dude. It takes a great amount of patience, tolerance, strong relationship with your conscience, honesty, integrity in everything you do, maturity, responsibility to stay connected to your ethics and values. Else, you will regret after few years, and may be it can be too late. By that time you could have lost your loved ones, their trust, your career, your respect, all possessions. Though material possessions you can always get it back. But the spiritual loss is something very difficult to accept and get over. You may have achieved that position, your dreams may get accomplished, but the price that you pay for it without integrity is much more. You will regret every action of yours, every words of yours, every achievement of yours. Chose to be in integrity of life and not indulge into any activities like lobbying, bribing, deceiting, dis-respect people, play with people’s life or play with their emotions.

Two character of this story Swaminathan and Sundeep, who started the career with an MNC bank at the same time, same day. But the paths they chose were different. Swaminathan, a man full of integrity in every area of his life and Sundeep, a complete opposite character, from day one he started with deceit, he reached peaks, he ruined lives and careers of many people, he deceited his own organization that gave him everything – a friend, a position, a wife, success, money, family, material possessions, luxury… but he deceited each of these. But life has its own way to pull you back and make you grounded.

3. Always stay connected to your source / roots, Never let success reach your head:

No matter what, at the end of the day, your friends with whom you started your journey will stay with you thru all thick and thin. You may have forgotten them in your success. You may have missed talking to them while climbing the staircase of success, ignored them, been arrogant with them, hurted them, you cheated them… but they are the only one who will stand for you when you need it.

Aditya – man who hired Swaminathan and Sundeep in MNC bank, also their boss – who was the source of success of these 2 people. If Aditya havent given them an opportunity to lead the launch of new loan products in the indian market on day of the job, they would have doing some clerical job after a month of management training. Aditya then leaves the job to start his own business. Swami wants to join aditya as for him aditya has been god. Aditya denied coz swami will not make great career with his startup. Aditya considered Swami and Sundeep as their younger brothers and treated them, guided them, mentored them like his younger brothers or family. Sundeep showered Aditya with his arrogance and dis-respected / insulted this wonderful relationship.

Natasha his wife – he kept on cheating his wife with multiple physical relationships with different women’s, extra marital affairs.

Swami, his friend – all his life, sundeep was jealous of Swami’s intellect. His own success rooted from swami’s intelligence. And later on in career, he bribed and bought and sold various designations. One day he was happy to have swami working under him and then forcibly send him to a new initiative of banks of starting a BPO, which no one wanted to jump in.

On the say when the global CEO, on the judgement day of Sundeep on all his activities and goof-ups, he was rescued by Aditya and Swaminathan. Natasha knew everything but chose to remain quite give Sundeep another chance.

At the end, Sundeep realized how for decades he had been screwing up lives of so many people as well as his best pals. At the end of the day, these best pals only came to his rescue.

What i did not find convincing in this book:

The story narrates about nearly, 10 to 15 years of life of 2 characters Sundeep and Swaminathan. The climax is not accepted. One cannot ignore the number of lives Sundeep ruined – personal lives as well as careers of his colleagues / subordinates…  its not handful, its in multiple 100’s. If people commit suicide / get divorced / sexual harrassment / promote or demote not on the basis of deservability, etc… It’s not to be ignored and just be forgiven.

Sundeep in these decade story, have always been shown as lucky enough to come out of situation without any punishment or any cost to pay for his illegitimate actions. He always thought.. “good its over and am saved”… the climax was no different.

Am sure many readers would not find the climax that can be accepting!

Otherwise, its an easy read, no glamorous language.

Khamoshiyan………..

 

 

 

Khamoshiyan aawaaz hain
Tum sun’ne to aao kabhi
Chhukar tumhe khill jaayengi
Ghar inko bulaao kabhi
Beqarar hain baat karne ko
Kehne do inko zaraa..

Khamoshiyan.. teri meri khamoshiyan
Khamoshiyan.. lipti hui khamoshiyan

Kya uss gali mein kabhi tera jaana hua
Jahaan se zamaane ko guzre zamaana hua
Mera samay toh wahin pe hai thehra hua
Bataaun tumhe kya mere sath kya kya hua

Khamoshiyan ek saaz hai
Tum dhun koi laao zaraa
Khamoshiyan alfaaz hain
Kabhi aa gunguna le zara
Beqarar hain baat karne ko
Kehne do inko zaraa.. haa..

Khamoshiyan.. teri meri khamoshiyan
Khamoshiyan.. lipti hui khamoshiyan

Nadiya ka paani bhi khamosh behta yahaan
Khili chandani mein chhipi lakh khamoshiyan
Baarish ki boondon ki hoti kahaan hai zubaan
Sulagte dilon mein hai khamosh uthta dhuaan

Khamoshiyan aakaash hai
Tum udne toh aao zara
Khamoshiyan ehsaas hai
Tumhe mehsoos hoti hai kya
Beqarar hain baat karne ko
Kehne do inko zara.. haa..

Khamoshiyan.. teri meri khamoshiyan
Khamoshiyan.. lipti hui khamoshiyan

Understanding Resource Utilization & Successful Delegation from Mahabharata war

 

 

 

Knowing the SWOT of your available resources can give you optimum utilization of your resources.

Delegation is a win-win when done appropriately, however, that does not mean that you can delegate just anything.
Kurukshetra war gives you a perfect lesson on both of the above. No wonder, Mahabharata is also known as the 5th Veda! It’s been said, those who read the epic Mahabharata, they get the knowledge and wisdom of all the 4 Vedas – Rig, Sama, Yajur, Atharva Veda’s. Rishi Vyas, knew, that 4 vedas would be difficult for common man to understand and that’s why he wrote Mahabharata.
On the Kaurava’s side, nobody wanted the war except Duryodhana. Kaurava’s had best of the resources like Bhishma, Drona, Karna, etc – all Maharathi’s. They did not wanted to be a part of war, but still had to.

Though, Kaurava’s side consisted best, but their motives were distributed. No common goal. Were just there for the sake of the being in the war.

Let’s look at few characters from Kauravas side:
Bhishma – He won’t kill the Pandavas, they are his grandchildren
Drona – He won’t kill Pandavas (his students)
Shalya – He was the maternal uncle of Pandavas and secretly helped them by acting as a spy. He also demotivated Karna in the battlefield.
Karna – Promised not to kill any Pandava except Arjuna.

So as you see, Kauravas are nothing but a directionless team of traitors. A team without any GOAL, fighting cluelessly. No organization.

Pandavas had a common goal but they intelligently divided the responsibilities. They had an agenda and they picked the right man for the right job.

Dhratsadyumna – Drona.
Shikhandi: Bhishma.
Satayaki – Bhurisrava.
Arjuna – Karna.
Bhima – Duryodhana and his brothers.
Sahadeva – Shakuni and his sons.
Nakula –Karna’s sons.
Support system – Virat, Drupad, Chedi, Magadh, Kasi, Matsya and Naga king.
Krishna – Saarthi, Crisis manager, Advisor, Mentor.
A great example of proper resource utilization. The right team is made by selecting the right Individuals. Get the right man for the right job. Have a common goal, but divide the goal into sub-goals and delegate it to the right individuals.

Understanding mergers and acquisitions from Kauravas and Pandavas

 

 

 

Hastinapur was the greatest empire of its time and the presence of Bhishma & Drona guaranteed the Victory of Kauravas (100 brothers) in Kurukshetra. Both the parties are going Kingdom to Kingdom for campaigning to become their allies. Kauravas, in their own world and pride did not make powerful allies except from old relations like Gandhara (Shakuni), Sindhu (Jayadrath), Kambodia (Camboja – Bhagadutta). Kauravas had enough of resources in terms of wealth, army, cavalries, elephants.
Krishna was not a king, but he had well-trained army with over 10,000 men who have been great assets in previous campaigns.
Before the war there came a situation, where Krishna was approached to become an ally, by both Duryodhan and Arjuna. Arjuna asked for Krishna and Duryodhan was happy to receive Krishna’s army.
Pandavas on the other hand did not have wealth so they focused on making powerful allies.

Panchal through marriage with Draupadi.
Dwarka through marriage with Arjuna and Subhadra.
Magadh through marriage of Sahdeva and Vijaya.
Chedi through marriage of Nakula and Karenmayi.
Kasi through marriage of Bhima and Balandhara.
Kekaya through marriage of Yudhisthira and Devika.
Matsya through marriage of Abhimanyu and Uttara.
The Rakshasas through marriage of Bhima and Hidimba.
The Nagas through marriage of Arjuna and Uloopi.
The kingdom of Virat – Arjuna saved Virat from Kauravas while disguised as Brihannala

Kauravas army and cavalry was too huge compared to that of Pandavas. Still Kauravas lost the war.
Pandavas chose powerful leaders. Krishna was a great asset. Krishna’s army was an asset only till Krishna provided his leadership. It’s not just the skills but knowledge, strategy and alertness plays a key role in winning any game!
Network with people and expand your reach. Connect with people who will fight with you because you share a similar cause.

Importance of Decision Making & context in Management

 

 

 

In the epic Mahabharata, Bhishma (Devavrata) took the vow of lifelong celibacy and service to whoever succeeds the throne of his father – King of Hastinapur, Shantanu. Thus sacrificing his ‘crown-prince’ title and denying himself the pleasures of conjugal love.

He took an immediate required Decision and the context was father’s happiness.

Who knows what future has stored in! His brave and bold decision turns out to be fatal. His step mother, Satyavati, gives birth to 2 children who die without leaving a successor. The Hastinapur kingdom is now without a king. Satyavati comes to Bhishma to break his vow and get married or have union with the 2 widows of his 2 no more son’s.

Bhishma refuses saying, that he has taken one decision and now he will stick to it no matter what.

On one hand, you see integrity and on the flip side, the decision taken long back has brought negative consequences.

What we learn from this story is as an organization we need to take decisons quickly with a context thats empowering and that takes the game forward. Decisions taken today may turn out to be complete opposite over a period of time or in another circumstances – could be internal or external. Context of the existence, survival and growth of the organization keeps changing So changing the decisions at right time is also utmost necessity. And not to take short-sighted decisions!

If you do not change your decision making instinct with the context, prepare for a storm, prepare for the “Mahabharata”.

Organization is bigger than the Individual

 

 

 
Yudhishtira is a noble king, an epitome of wisdom and righteousness. Yet he decides to gamble away his entire kingdom not just once but twice.

Draupadi asks, who gave him to right to lose her, his brothers and the Kingdom? Being a king, does not entitle him to gamble away his kingdom. Yudhistira loses his self control and gambles away everything, thinking that the kingdom, the property, his brothers and his wife are all his “possessions”.

The organization (Kingdom) is bigger than the individual (King / CEO). The individual has no right to destroy the organization, even if he has founded it. He may be the manager or owner but the organization is certainly greater than him.

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